ABOUT ME
Havening Techniques® Certified Practitioner
Emotion Code® Certified Practitioner
Spiritual Healing
Hi, I'm Alexandra — an intuitive healer certified in The Emotion Code and Havening Techniques, with a deep passion for supporting children and teenagers in developing emotional resilience and self-regulation skills. My work is rooted in a holistic approach that honors the profound connection between mind, body, and spirit. Guided by intuition and spiritual insight, I blend energy healing with practical techniques to help children and teens cultivate emotional well-being.
Over the years, I've worked with a diverse range of clients, but my focus has naturally shifted toward supporting young people, especially those who are neurodiverse or experiencing emotional challenges. As a mother and stepmother to both neurodiverse and neurotypical children, I understand the unique needs of families navigating these paths. These personal experiences have shaped my approach and deepened my commitment to creating safe, nurturing spaces for healing and growth.
My goal is to help children and teens feel seen, empowered, and better equipped to navigate life's challenges with calm and confidence.
"A healer's power stems not from any special ability, but from maintaining the courage and awareness to embody and express the universal healing power that every human being naturally possesses."E. Leventhal
THERAPY
I blend various healing approaches, with a primary focus on the Emotion Code Technique developed by Dr. Bradley Nelson, whilst also incorporating Havening Techniques to help with the release of trapped emotions and traumafrom the body.
EMOTION CODE TECHNIQUE
The Emotion Code is a powerful tool designed to identify and release trapped emotions that may be causing imbalance in the body and mind.
Many teenagers and children, whether neurotypical or neurodiverse, can struggle to regulate their emotional state. They may feel different or as though they don't quite fit in—an experience that can lead to challenges both at home and in school.
The Emotion Code offers a gentle yet effective way to help them feel seen, heard, understood, self regulate and are better able to express themselves.
Trapped emotions are more than just unprocessed feelings; they are potent energies from past experiences like trauma or loss that can become lodged in the body. When left unaddressed, they can accumulate and contribute to health issues like anxiety and depression to name a few... These emotions are held within the subconscious mind, which silently influences our beliefs, memories, and daily feelings.
During a typical Emotion Code session with me, I access this deeper part of the mind in a gentle, non-invasive way. Using muscle testing, I can communicate with the subconscious mind to identify the specific trapped emotions contributing to an imbalance. Once pinpointed, I guide the body to release these energies, often with the aid of a magnet or crystal pendulum. Throughout this safe and intuitive process, it's common to feel subtle shifts, leaving you feeling lighter, more relaxed, and emotionally freer as your body lets go of long-held burdens.
HAVENING TECHNIQUES
Havening is a psychosensory therapy that is designed to alter the brain in order to de-traumatize a negative or distressing memory and remove its negative effects from both our body and psyche.
Havening is an all-encompassing therapy typically swift that can really reach the heart of people's issues. For most people it facilitates an instant shift, for others it takes a little longer. The process is very powerful on various levels, triggering biological, neurological, psychological and physiological changes.
In a typical Havening session, we begin by identifying a specific trauma, fear, or negative belief that you'd like to work on. Once identified, I'll ask you to rate the level of distress it causes, which helps us establish a baseline.
The session then involves the application of gentle, rhythmic touch—known as the Havening Touch—to areas such as the arms, hands, or face. This is often combined with guided mental techniques, like counting, visualisations, or humming, which help reduce the emotional intensity of the memory.
The process is designed to promote a delta brainwave state, which supports the release of calming neurochemicals. This state creates the optimal conditions for the brain to "rewire" its response to the trauma, leading to a reduction in stress and a sense of emotional relief or detachment from the original event.
From stressed to calm...
TESTIMONIALS
It was a wonderful experience to receive havening and Alex was very reassuring and explained the process. I was very relaxed throughout the session and was delighted to be able to clear some issues/old patterns in an easy and effective way. I found the sessions gentle and restorative and a great aid to rebalance and bring calm to me. It's definitely a good modality for healing health I know I can come back to whenever I feel I need it. Thanks a million Alex.
Siobhán
I found havening with Alex to be a wonderful experience. Alex is non-judgemental and encouraging, which helped me to feel comfortable and at ease after a few minutes in our first session. This in turn enabled me to open up to my emotional self and from there Alex helped me in my healing. During these Covid times of uncertainty and fear, Spirhaven Healing has supported me in letting go of old trauma, in doing this it has helped me to grow in self-esteem, learning to love myself and accepting all of me. Alex is caring and listens carefully to me. I feel she made wise connections with my thoughts and emotions bringing an enlightenment to me that I haven't felt in years. I look forward to my next havening session with Alex.
Bernadette
I met Alex through a friend and I felt an immediate bond with her. She created a lovely atmosphere for me as a client in my sessions. I felt completely relaxed with her and she has a non judgemental approach. She is a good listener and I enjoyed the experience of Havening, which I had never tried before. Havening has enabled me to let go of old issues and bad painful memories from my past and get on with life. I will highly recommend Alex for her Havening and her listening skills.
Patricia
Alexandra is a committed and passionate practitioner who aided me greatly in our recent havening sessions. I feel her holistic and contemporary approach to healing makes her very flexible and adaptable when working with prospective clients. I felt lighter and revigorated after our sessions. Her compassionate and empathetic nature shines in her practice. Havening with Alexandra has truly inspired me and led me to a new and revitalized direction in my life. Thank you Alex.
Eoin Heneghan
Thank you for the Havening sessions where you worked on my sore shoulder. I had a healthy amount of scepticism going into the session, I have sought various therapies in the past, for which I've had mixed results. I found your friendly approach very settling and the healing process very interesting. I particularly like that you use your healing instincts to compliment the Havening process. Since our sessions, my shoulder has been almost pain free! So, in my opinion, Havening is a great therapy and would certainly do it again.
Anca
I have great pleasure, and no hesitation, in providing feedback on my experience of Alexandra Simoncini, both as a Therapist and indeed on a personal level beyond her role as a Havening Professional. I have known Alex, since June 2016, and during that time I have found her to be an open, kind, calming and level headed individual who demonstrates great integrity, insight and empathy. Alex has been a great source of support to myself and to my family during a testing time both medically and also through great change in our lives.
During my healing sessions with Alex she created a peaceful and calming therapeutic environment which placed me at ease immediately and enabled me to be more open and trusting regarding past and present trauma - including anxiety during childhood, post natal depression, marital separation as well as ongoing fears for my health due to a pancreatic tumour with major surgery approaching.
Whilst I am a great believer in Psychotherapy, principally Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, I had never read about or experienced Havening Therapy previously. Alex took a good amount of time to explain the Havening process, likely emotional responses and how we would close the session which was incredibly helpful. Alex reassured me throughout the sessions that we could stop at any time if I was uncomfortable and as such it has been clear that I am in a safe pair of hands. Whilst the sessions stimulated an emotional response from me, they were cathartic and caring, and I experienced a sense of relief and reduction in anxiety as we completed the treatment.
Following the treatment, Alex asked if she may contact me later in the day to discuss any emotions or questions I may have the following the treatment, and she kindly made a point of dropping by my home. Aside from therapy, Alex has provided ongoing emotional and practical support relating to both my recent abdominal surgery as well as my marital separation.
In summary I would recommend Alex as a therapist and friend who demonstrates the following attributes:
- Professionalism
- Insightfulness and cautious with guidance
- Integrity and humanity
- Non judgemental listener
- Emotional intelligence
- Strong, and straight-forward in feedback
- Integrity
- Supportive and caring
Shirley McLaughlin
I had to undergo an operation to reconstruct the tendons and after that had had constant pain. It was affecting my daily life and I was living on pain medication and been woken by the pain at night. I was not able to walk very far and stairs were a no-go. This despite constant physio and hydrotherapy. It just seemed to not be getting any better, and I had resolved myself to the fact that I may always been in pain.
But after our Havening sessions the constant pain in my knee seemed to resolve within a few days. Within a week I was off all pain medication and I no longer was being woken in pain. My leg has since gotten stronger and I have been able to build the strength as I was not in so much pain.
I am now able to walk and far distances and have started taking the stairs at work on a daily basis. I have also been able to buy a bike and enjoy cycling with my 3 kids.
I am very grateful for the wonderful work you did on my leg and hope you can offer others healing with your gift of Havening.
Lauren Davies
SESSION PRICES
All sessions are conducted in a safe, confidential environment